Note: Originally posted 10/12/12 - moved to this new location due to high spam volume.
Here is my side of the story…
I thought I’d dealt with stress in my life, but this was a whole new level. We have NEVER paid SO MUCH money and been treated SO badly by anyone!! He was very unprofessional, very moody, very deceptive. He kept saying “I’m different than other builders”. We realized that meant “the rules don’t apply to me”. We had two close friends building with other builders at the same time as us. We constantly compared notes and they (and we) couldn’t believe how unfairly and unprofessionally we were being treated.
One big issue was not being able to go through the house whenever we wanted. No one we’ve talked to during or since had ever even heard of a builder who won’t let you go through the house whenever you wanted. If we showed up unannounced, we were met by his “bouncers”, who would physically prevent us from coming on the lot and immediately call him to warn him we were there. We were then turned away. If they weren’t there, the property is surrounded by a locked gate to which you will NOT be given a key.
More great quotes: “I’m free to interpret the architectural plans any way I want.” He never called us to ask “How..”. He just did whatever he wanted. Then when we pointed out he had not followed the plans, he would use this phrase and then say “If you want it changed, you pay”. When we commented it wasn’t a change, but a “correction”, he once again stated “I’m free to interpret the plans any way I want”. Our architect tried to reason with him, but gave up. He said in all his years of dealing with builders (and they can be an interesting bunch) he never had these kinds of problems.
Toward the end things were completely out of control. We finally just closed and got him out then spent even more money finishing the house, correcting problems, etc…
We wondered why he had targeted us, but after we moved in and began to talk to neighbors, we realized it wasn’t just us. We heard (and continue to hear two years later) story, after story, after story of people who had bad experiences with him. Funny as he kept telling us how the neighbors all loved him. Just ask the couple next door to us who complained to him when his people knocked over their fence in the process of putting ours up. He promised to fix it, never did, and then when they pushed the subject again, he questioned whether his people had even done the damage. Needless to say, the fence was never fixed.
After we moved in, a couple contacted us who were building with him and looking for advice on what to do as they were at their wits end. We compared stories and found our experiences were quite similar. They even got to the frustration point where they considered selling their house (which they designed to be their “dream house”) just because of all the bad karma they felt the house now had. They ended up doing the same as us, get him out and then suck up the add’l money to finish the house correctly.
I could go on for pages. He is definitely a wolf in sheep's clothing. He’s all smiles and nice when he’s selling, but a whole different side comes out once your name is on the bottom line. His signs were the only ones in neighborhood when we began the process, but now there are many quality builders in the area so move on to one of them and save your sanity… and your money!!!!